Take a look at the body settings that make
the D3 AF work for you.
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Let's look at how you can maximize the D3 AF for
you photography through custom settings
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Let's look at basic D3 flash settings on the body and in Custom Settings.
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Here's the basic settings for the SB-800 when working with the D3 and iTTL and applying a little of what we learn.
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